
boristhebadseed,
I've been faffing about with a lilly pilly for the past 2 years or so, trying to get acquainted with more native species. I have found them very forgiving to my pruning "techniques?" and that I am constantly rubbing off new shoots all the time from main trunk & branch areas. I think you have a little tree that will keep you quite busy! I would consider AnthonyW's idea of loosing a branch to aid in a more fluid trunk line.
I am a little perplexed however, as I was under the impression I was the World's Greatest Dad?